Climbing Together

This summer we have climbed the Manitou Incline three times. The torturous ascent is a step by step climb of 2,090 feet over .88 miles. The grade averages  about 45% and at times is as steep as 68%.I hate it. Some of the steps shouldn't even be called "steps." They are uneven, tall, and unforgiving. And, once you get to the top your two miserable options are (1) go back down the "steps," or (2) hike down a 4 mile trail. Both options require way more effort than I want to give.But, I like food. A lot. So, we find creative ways to exercise. I also love nature and amazing views. The rise of the incline provides some ridiculously incredible views of Colorado Springs and the surrounding landscape.And I love accomplishing something difficult with other people. It makes me feel like a connected part of humanity — working together toward a common goal. Each time we have climbed we have met some fascinating people:

• A young 20something who was beginning to figure out her young adult life apart from her family.
• A couple who were training for their planned ascent of Aconcagua (the highest peak in South America). They shared their climbing wisdom and some much needed water.
• A Grandpa, with a recent knee replacement, trying to keep up with his grandkids.

I know this will sound obvious, but it's important to say plainly. No matter who you encounter on the incline - regardless of age, profession, beliefs, or number of tattoos - we all have the same singular focus: continue this specific ascent until we get to the top. Now, that doesn't mean we will all make it to the top, but, the path is laid out in front of us. The goal is clearly evident. We are all climbing together. We are experiencing the same struggle.It's immeasurably difficult to find people who are really suited to climb together. This is what I have learned about climbing and hiking partners:It's not about pace, quality of equipment, or even someone's level of fitness. It really comes down to this: do we have the same goal, the same singular focus, are we walking on the same path?If so, you can climb unbelievable heights together. If not, then frustration, disillusionment, and disappointment will destroy your ability to take one more step forward.The first time Donna and I climbed Manitou this Summer it took us almost three hours. We had been living through a no-carb cleanse for about two weeks, we didn't bring enough water, and we were thoroughly unprepared. However, we had the same goals in mind: get out in the sunshine, breathe some fresh air, experience some beautiful views, and lastly, climb at least some of the incline. So, when we ran out of physical gas (which was very early) we decided to go slow, take our time, and make progress together. I've climbed about seven 14ers and the climb up the incline that day was harder than any of them.Yesterday I met Chris. Both of us were trying to catch our breath and sat down on the same step together. As we surveyed the incredible landscape we waited for our heart rates to come down from the stratosphere. Chris was in town to visit a friend and attend a concert at Red Rocks. I asked where he was from and found out that he lives at sea level. He smiled when I exclaimed that he was climbing like he lives at altitude. He looked up the mountain and asked,"Is that a false summit?" "It is," I replied, "but, once you get there you are so close to the top." We passed each other a dozen times on the way to the summit. When we finally made it we congratulated each other. Temporary friends who were focused on the same goal, climbing together.By the time I hit the false summit Donna had been resting at the top for 30 minutes. When she saw me she made her way down a few hundred steps to my location and began to climb with me. She stared down at the timbers and matched my steps one at a time. Left, right, pause. Every step. Patient. Deliberate. Watching. Waiting. Thoughtful. Lifelong friends who were focused on the same goal, climbing together.

• Choose your climbing companions carefully.
• Talk often about your hopes, dreams and goals.
• Clarify the path you are on, over and over.
• When a climbing companion veers off the path, gently restore them and keep on climbing. (Galatians 6:1-3)

Then, when you feel like giving up, when you feel like quitting, you will find that you can, with the help of others, take one more step.

So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing. 1 Thessalonians 5:11